So I've made it through 10 days apart .... only about 150 days to go before the earliest Rob will be living at home again.
Argh, this pretty much sucks. I have to remember how proud I am of him, and not how much I miss him. Eventually we'll be able to talk on the phone again and I'll be able to visit him.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Thursday, May 28, 2009
A week and a day
It's been a week and a day since I dropped the hubs off at the recruiter's office to go up to boot camp. It's really starting to set in. He's not here. He's not going to be here for months. So no hugs, no cuddles. We're a very affectionate couple. We loved "hugs on a demand." No hugs on demand for me for a while (or him ... I doubt his drill instructor or bunk mate is giving him hugs on demand). And I can't just pick up the phone and call him. I miss that. Usually at least once (or twice) during the work day one of us would call the other just to say "hi ... I love you ... how's your day going?" for a couple minutes. I miss being able to just call him, hear his voice, tell him I love him, hear him say he loves me. AHHH. This cut off of all communication sucks. I know they have to break him in, and mold him, and I feel like I'm being broken in too. Forced to get used to being cut off from each other.
Anyway, the next time I see you, if I hug you a lot ... just bear with me. I miss hugs.
Anyway, the next time I see you, if I hug you a lot ... just bear with me. I miss hugs.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Box from The Sailor
Today I came home from work to The Box - his personal stuff that he can't keep with him during boot camp. Of course I had to take pictures:
Laundry ... yay! And big giant shoes.
I guess he couldn't keep his writing tablet with him, because that was in the box. But it seems like while he was waiting around right before leaving for base, he had some time to kill and wrote out a list of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I liked some of the things he wants to do:
Aww, he loves me :)
Laundry ... yay! And big giant shoes.
I guess he couldn't keep his writing tablet with him, because that was in the box. But it seems like while he was waiting around right before leaving for base, he had some time to kill and wrote out a list of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I liked some of the things he wants to do:
Aww, he loves me :)
Monday, May 25, 2009
Memorial Day
This morning I went to a Memorial Day parade in my town. It wasn't a traditional parade - it was just members of the VFW, with marching bands from the local junior high and high school marching to the local cemeteries in town (three along a stretch of a main road). I caught up with them at the second cemetery (about three-quarters of a mile from our apartment), and then followed down to the last (and largest) cemetery. During that ceremony, I cried a little bit, thinking about the sacrifices the hubs is making, and how proud I am of him.
Right after the ceremony ended, I really started to miss him. For some reason, looking at my cell phone hit me with the fact that he's not here. I don't know why. It's weird what things trigger those feelings. I started walking home, really missing him. I wish I had my buddy (that's what we call each other), and without him, I have to do everything alone. That's hard to think about right now. All the simple things we would do together - go to dinner, go to a movie, hang out with friends, or just sit at home together - I'm doing alone, missing him.
Memorial Day also always made me think of my Grandpa (Navy - WWII) and my Uncle (Army - Vietnam). I miss them both a lot. My Grandma was with Grandpa when he was off at WWII. I wish she were still alive so I could talk to her about it, and how she dealt with it. I couldn't imagine. I mean, we're apart right now, but I know the hubs is safe. I don't know how I would cope if he were to get deployed.
Right after the ceremony ended, I really started to miss him. For some reason, looking at my cell phone hit me with the fact that he's not here. I don't know why. It's weird what things trigger those feelings. I started walking home, really missing him. I wish I had my buddy (that's what we call each other), and without him, I have to do everything alone. That's hard to think about right now. All the simple things we would do together - go to dinner, go to a movie, hang out with friends, or just sit at home together - I'm doing alone, missing him.
Memorial Day also always made me think of my Grandpa (Navy - WWII) and my Uncle (Army - Vietnam). I miss them both a lot. My Grandma was with Grandpa when he was off at WWII. I wish she were still alive so I could talk to her about it, and how she dealt with it. I couldn't imagine. I mean, we're apart right now, but I know the hubs is safe. I don't know how I would cope if he were to get deployed.
Saturday, May 23, 2009
First weekend
This morning I woke up and realized this is what my life will be like until October. I can take it day by day ... but it's going to last like this until at least October (maybe longer). Ugh. I need to forget about that and continue to focus on day by day. I will get to see him again in 9 weeks, and then when he's in a-school, we can talk on the phone, and I can visit him.
One hard thing about staying behind is all the reminders of him. There's the big stuff - photographs, all his books, the empty other half of the bed - but then there are the little daily things that make it seem like he should be here - his set of keys, his mp3 player, his soap and shampoo in the shower, CDs still in the stereo in his car.
In other news, my friends and I had a party last night to raise money for our Relay For Life team (to raise money for the American Cancer Society). We raised over $200! Not bad considering we started planning this party last Tuesday.
One hard thing about staying behind is all the reminders of him. There's the big stuff - photographs, all his books, the empty other half of the bed - but then there are the little daily things that make it seem like he should be here - his set of keys, his mp3 player, his soap and shampoo in the shower, CDs still in the stereo in his car.
In other news, my friends and I had a party last night to raise money for our Relay For Life team (to raise money for the American Cancer Society). We raised over $200! Not bad considering we started planning this party last Tuesday.
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